John K.
I was evaluating Jason from his videos and as well as podcasts. I was already working with another coach. So I wanted to see what Jason could give that was different than any other coach.
After working with Jason I found that my views of the world were an illusion. And I don't think I was in reality totally until we started to work together. I started to learn a new approach to life and the mindset of non-judgment. I learned about moving through my emotions instead of wrestling with them. And then I can let go of the outcome. The biggest thing for me is my new mindset, a new way of approaching life.
When I started out with Jason I was very judgmental and I am still judgmental. I have to work on that daily. Jason helped me learn how to stop being so damned judgmental of myself as well as other people.
I learned how to be okay with that feelings that come up. Oftentimes I get anxiety. I think that I'm not going to be able to live through that moment. But I can live through that moment if I just go through the emotion instead of trying to wrestle with emotion. Ultimately I do survive these moments. Whatever the outcome ends up being is OK for me now. I can let things happen the way they're going to happen.
I’m learning how to date. I’m learning things about relationships that I had no clue on. I used to think that dating was all about what you see on TV. You fall in love and all that. I've learned it's much different than that actually. It's almost evolutionary. It's just a totally different way of looking at it for me.
I’m looking at women in a totally different way where people don't put them on pedestals. Through the practices Jason has taught me, practicing non-judgment is everything. I’m starting to see some good things come about from my relationships with women. And I can be OK with who I am.
The journaling process has been critical to my success. I do the journaling every night. It helps me get things down on paper so that I'm not carrying them in my head. When I get it all down on paper I can process it better. We meet every two weeks to discuss that stuff and we always have a lot to go over. I have learned a lot from that. All of the feedback and comments that Jason responds back to me with is great. In between our meetings I can process everything. I can think about those a-ha moments. Those a-has are helping me to understand people better. It helps me better understand myself as a human being. It helps me continually grow.
Jason gets right in there and is willing to slug it out with me. He’s good at figuring out what’s going on. He helps me understand myself better. He works with me to resolve all these different issues and how to reprocess all the information.
Another huge thing is that he’s teaching me is a whole different way of life. And ultimately that's really great. He’s helping me to liberate myself from my beating myself up with my thoughts so I can be free to live the life that I dreamed of. We’ve made a lot of progress.
I would definitely recommend Jason's coaching because it is very interpersonal. It's custom to me. It's custom to what's going on inside of me. It's not something you buy as a kit. It’s not a canned program for hundreds and hundreds of people. No, this is custom to me. This is what I needed to develop and grow so I can feel free and become a better person.
I didn't realize just how much a lot of my emotions were paralyzing me from living the life that I wanted. I almost wanted to give up earlier this week because of something that happened, but I knew I couldn't. If I did let that fear ultimately control me, then I would wonder on that death bed why I didn't do something about it. Jason's helping me to live. He's helped me to get to that fulfilling life I've always dreamed of.